MS-05 · The Message You Still Send

Come Back Next Week

Send one more real message from memory, then save the sent words for a follow-up.

10 minNeeds: one easy message already sentOutcome: a second real message, sent by you

Do this with the lesson closed

Read this page once. Then close it. Keep only the worksheet, the don’t-paste card, and your MS-02 ask on the desk.

Repeat the whole job from memory

About 10 min

  1. Do the MS-01 stop check on a new, real message.
  2. Write the one thing you need and your rough words on paper.
  3. Use the MS-02 ask to make a short draft with stand-ins.
  4. Check every fact. Change three parts. Read it aloud.
  5. Copy the draft out of the chat into Notes. Clean it and add real names there.
  6. Send it yourself.
  7. Save the sent version in Notes with today’s date. If no reply comes, write a follow-up date on your paper calendar.
Worked example · you type
Help me write a short, polite reply to a teacher.
Use only what I say below. Do not add anything. Plain words, 3 short lines.
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thanks for sending the homework, [Kid A] will hand it in thursday
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A good short answer looks like

Hi [Teacher],
Thank you for sending the homework.
[Kid A] will hand it in on Thursday.

Your answer will be worded differently. That’s normal. Check it has the same parts: thanks, what happens next, and no added reason or promise.

Weekly proof

One message you had been putting off was sent this week, by you: to the right person, with one clear ask, no fact you did not supply, and no stray symbols.

A reply is nice, but it is not required. You cannot control whether someone replies.

↓ Download the MS-05 worksheet (PDF)

Need a print copy from your browser? Open the print-ready worksheet.

Success check

  • I did it with the lesson closed
  • The message was sent by me
  • The sent words are saved in Notes with a date

Stop line

If this new message hits the MS-01 stop list, do not put it in the chat. Pick an easier message or ask a person.

Brake line: Stop · New chat · Ctrl/Cmd+Shift+T if the tab closes · log out on a shared computer.

You can stop here.

One real message sent by you is the goal. The optional lesson is only for a no, a complaint, or an apology.

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